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Work on something you really believe in. For example, if you love your Ipod, you might want to tell people why it's so wonderful. I call this ``faith,'' and it's an important part of everyday life. When you really believe in a certain product, subject or issue, your faith shows through in everything you say about it, and you can easily influence others to try it or believe in it.
Build your confidence by writing the speech on paper. Count the words. Cut the length by ten percent to get rid of the ``fat.'' You want to keep only the ``muscle''. Revise it again and cut it by another ten percent. After three revisions, it will be much better. Less is better than more.
Once it is written, practice giving it in front of a mirror. Then practice it some more. Use a tripod to make a video of yourself and study the video. After several rounds, you'll get really good and your confidence will be much improved.
Now get four or five file cards and set down the important points, and add a few key words to jog your memory. Practice the speech using only the card notes before a camera or the mirror. To overcome your fear, you'll have to do a little work.
You may be thinking, ``I have a terrible accent in English. People will laugh at me!'' But you watch TV and you know celebrities don't speak every word perfectly. Your beautiful Thai accent is a positive selling point. It makes you more believable because you speak like a ``real'' person, not like a TV commercial.
Make time to arrive early at the place where you will give your presentation to get the ``feel'' of the room. Ask the person in charge if you'll have a microphone and a projector if you are planning to use them. If circumstances permit, test the microphone and the sound system by speaking a few words into the microphone. Stand at the podium and ``mentally'' deliver your speech or argument. Doing all or most of these will help to relax you and boost your confidence.
Making a presentation is both mental and physical, so just before going on pump yourself up a bit (like boxers do before going into the ring) and get the adrenaline flowing. Visualize the crowd giving you thunderous applause at the end of your successful speech and repeat to yourself: ``I can do this!''
There you have it! Powerful, confident public speaking in English (or any language). Dream it, dare it and then do it. It works!
James P Louviere is an editor and writer at Assumption University. He has been an educator, civil rights activist and has a PhD in educational psychology and science education. Please send feedback to louvieredream@yahoo.com
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